Being a caregiver involves providing support and assistance to someone who needs help due to disability, illness or age. As a caregiver, you might manage daily tasks, provide personal care, and offer emotional support. This role can also be incredibly challenging and stressful and can lead to caregiver stress and burnout.

Harmful Beliefs About Caregiving

Many caregivers operate with beliefs that can increase stress and burnout. These include:

• The belief that you must do everything alone: Thinking you shouldn't need help or that seeking assistance is a sign of weakness.
• The belief that you must be perfect: Holding unrealistic expectations of yourself, thinking that you must be patient, capable, calm, and loving all the time.
• The belief that your needs are secondary: Prioritizing the care recipient's needs so highly that your own health and wellbeing suffer.

These beliefs can create a cycle of stress and exhaustion, making the caregiving journey even more difficult.

Symptoms of Caregiver Stress

Caregiver stress can manifest in numerous ways, affecting both your physical and psychological health:

• Emotional symptoms may include overwhelming feelings of irritability, anxiety, and depression. You might also experience guilt for not doing enough or frustration over your situation.

• Physical symptoms can range from sleep disturbances to more serious health issues like high blood pressure or a weakened immune system.

Acknowledging these symptoms is the first step toward managing caregiver stress.

Each disease or condition brings with it a unique pattern of unfolding needs. For instance, someone who experiences cognition challenges such as Alzheimer's Disease or other dementias can progress from mild forgetfulness to significant cognitive and physical decline, profoundly affecting caregiving responsibilities and emotional demands. Similarly, physical disabilities or chronic illnesses like cancer or heart disease can shift the caregiving landscape drastically over time.

Recognizing these phases and the specific challenges they bring can help caregivers seek appropriate resources and support tailored to each stage of the journey.